When it comes to planning your wedding there is just so much to go into it. Finding the right band or dj, the dress, the cake the matching women’s and mens wedding bands, the hall, the food…the list just goes on and on. My sister is in the process of getting married and my sister in law just got married. I got married 2 months after I got engaged and we had it all even the woman and mens rings in place for the ceremony I knew my husband for years though because we wend to college but when it came to the engagement it was quick and it worked out better that way. Just planned everything and boom that was that. My sister in law was engaged for 18 months and her wedding was just so elaborate and she was always thinking about it and tried to make it perfect. I say that the less time you have to think and prepare for that wedding then the better. But that is just me.